Rosalba Fontanez

Oftentimes, the emotions we are feeling may belong to someone with whom we have had a connection. We, in every relationship, are continuously exchanging energy that can become a tie or cord connecting two people.

Energetic cords can linger long after a relationship has ended. This continuous cord may leave an open conduit between you and another individual, through which energy and emotions continue to flow. Cutting the cord can help you break apart from old, unnecessary, attachments, and liberate you from connections that are no longer serving you. It also can help free a loved one to reach new stages of growth. You’re not severing a relationship, but you are severing the cords that are no longer serving you both. 

With whom:

• Are you holding onto past grievances or resentments that no longer serve you?

Who:

• Do you need to cut the energetic ties in order to reconnect anew?
• Do you need to forgive?
• Do you need to let go off?

What:

• Have these ties cost you up until this point in your life?
• Will they continue to cost you if you do not change now?

It's imperative to understand that, a cord may simply decline to be cut off, it may be still serving a higher purpose. Remember that cutting a cord is not a substitute for doing your shadow work ( emotional work) with the involved individuals.

Cutting a relationship cord should always be viewed as a positive and nurturing act. Dissolving /cutting the cords that no longer support you, liberates you and others from the ties that bind.